When was the first kiss? Probably around 20 million years ago, scientists say

Kissing did not begin with star-crossed human lovers but with the primate ancestors of great apes around 20 million years ago, according to a study published on Wednesday.

Researchers from Oxford University and the Florida Institute of Technology wanted to examine when kissing began, given that from an evolutionary standpoint it has no obvious survival benefit, and could spread disease.

Yet humans, chimpanzees, bonobos, orangutans and gorillas all kiss, which strongly suggests the habit was inherited from a shared ancestor.

Scientists in the study combined observations of primate behaviour with data on evolutionary relationships, to rewind the clock and try and date the first kiss.

“Using these two key pieces of information, we employed a modelling approach that allowed us to simulate different evolutionary scenarios,” said lead author Dr Matilda Brindle of Oxford’s Department of Biology. Running the model millions of times put that first smooch at 21.5-16.9 million years ago.

The findings were published in the journal Evolution and Human Behaviour. The scientists’ unromantic definition of kissing was “non-aggressive, mouth-to-mouth contact that did not involve food transfer”. This included sexual kissing as well as platonic kisses such as those between family members or in friendly greetings. How kissing emerged remains a subject of debate, as does why it persisted.