Cumbrian charity fears closure could leave mums suicidal
First-time mum Amy described motherhood as “absolutely wonderful” but admitted it could be stressful and overwhelming at times. “The long nights, the crying and not knowing what it is they want, you’ve just been handed a tiny human being and you’re meant to just know what to do and having the expectations of mum knows…
First-time mum Amy described motherhood as “absolutely wonderful” but admitted it could be stressful and overwhelming at times.
“The long nights, the crying and not knowing what it is they want, you’ve just been handed a tiny human being and you’re meant to just know what to do and having the expectations of mum knows best.
“I didn’t have a clue and I think a lot of mums are in the same boat.”
At first Amy found it difficult to leave the house with her daughter who was born prematurely.
Now, she attends the charity’s teen to 25 group, which has helped her build confidence.
“Obviously everyone absolutely adores the babies here but it’s called Happy Mums for a reason,” she said.
“There’s plenty of support out there for babies, but it’s nice to have something that is more about the mums.”
Amy said without the support of the group she would struggle more to get out and about.
“When I’m feeling low with my depression or anxiety and more anxious about going out I know that I can come to Happy Mums, I look forward to it,” she said.
“Without it I’d struggle more with speaking to people and asking for the help.”
